According to an article in the New York Times, “Long hair is not the appropriate choice of grownups.” It goes even so far as to question it as “A rebellious choice for women over 50?” In addition, fashion designer Carolina Herrera was quoted as saying, “Wearing long hair over 40 is faux pas and women need to learn to age gracefully.”
Screeeeech!!!! As we know, everyone is entitled to their opinion; however, on this one, I respectfully disagree.
There are many examples of the media’s attempts to desexualize women in midlife. Long hair allows us to connect with feeling feminine, glamorous and sexy. The length, style and color of our hair is a direct reflection of your personality and is a personal choice.
Long hair is a beautiful choice for women over 40 and I’m happy we’re free to have the option. Women are taking care of themselves in midlife better than at any time in history. Some of the style rules that may have applied decades ago are just not relevant anymore.
However, if you do choose to wear your hair long over 40, there are a few hair rules that will keep you looking modern and beautiful.
Maintain your hair color to keep gray from showing. Long hair is youthful. Long gray hair is a contrast. To stay modern looking with impeccable style, your longer hair will require that you stay diligent with a higher level of color maintenance.
Keep hair healthy and thick. The longer your hair, the more important it will be to keep it looking healthy by regularly conditioning it. If you notice your hair is becoming dry or thinning as it often does with age, a shorter style may be more suitable for the health of your hair.
Monitor the length. Long hair can look feminine and stylish. However, if hair is worn too long, it can age you and look dated. Generally, the longest length is just below your bra strap.
Style Matters. If you wear long hair without a style, it can look outdated and make you appear older. Even if you choose a long and straight style like Demi Moore, it needs to be impeccably maintained by keeping it healthy, shiny and smooth to look modern.
By wearing your hair in longer lengths, you can add feminine glamour to your style over 40!
Here are beautiful examples of women over 40 with long hair:
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